In general, I read a lot about it and to be honest, I had a spark plug break once, but it was crazy and it was done on a cold engine. Now I`m about to replace my second car, there are two that need to be replaced and I`m not doing anything rash anymore. I have been pouring brake fluid and WD40 on the spark plug for 2 days now. As for warm or cold, there is probably no difference (personally, I lean towards cold because the aluminum expands when warm and the diameter of the hole increases, and no matter how badly it goes, you won`t even feel the thread stripping. The important thing is to slowly move forward a little at a time. backwards and water it to the max with preparations and hopefully it will work.
And finally, as I read somewhere, if it`s supposed to break, it will break, but I hope that everyone will be able to get it out without any problems.