Choosing the Right Controller for CH Furnace Blower: Keller Stove & Inter Elektronik IE 24

Hello, I have a solid fuel stove without a feeder. The installation looks more or less like this: a Keller stove with a water jacket, a blower with an inter elektronik ie 24 controller (necessary due to the fact that the distance between the stove and the chimney is 2.5 m, a deckchair and a weak cug) 6 radiators 10 ribs, expansion tank without a safety valve and a boiler. The questions that bother me are:
1. Can this driver be set favorably (I have no idea. Too much how to set it) so that the stove does not stick.
2. Is it possible to smoke sparingly to use less coal (I light up from the top by loading about half of the furnace)
3. What is the controller for the blower and pump recommended for you with the possibility of home control.
4. How to possibly better convert the installation to improve it.
I am adding a few photos of how it looks more or less now.

With this and a similar stove, forget about controlling it from the room, it cannot be controlled like gas, electric, etc.
In order not to stick to it from the inside, burn fine grains, peas, fill the stove, set fire to the top, set for example 50 * C and that's it, when it burns out, you pour out the ash and over and over again Maciej.
You write what you can convert. You can install a buffer about 1000-1500 l and heat it from the furnace and only from the buffer house. Then you can control the temperature. One more advice, when you burn wood, do not use the blower, just open the bottom door, you will not run off the slime inside the stove. As for the controller, they all work the same, some have the ability to set several different temperatures throughout the day (tornado). I didn't use it because reducing the 2-3 C did not make any difference, only more effort.
Read about the buffer here.
http://czysteogrzał.pl/instalacja-grzewcza/bufor-ciepla/