First question: why did nobody answer ?
Answer: (At a guess) Because they were busy or asleep or doing something else.
Not everybody lives in front of their PC.
Some of us do other things for greater or lesser parts of the day.
You may be in a different time zone in a different part of the world to the rest of us.
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Second question:Why do AC supplies blow each other up if they are not synchronised ?
Answer: Think of the two AC supplies as being like two high voltage, for example 250V, batteries, which are having their polarity repeatedly switched over.
If they are in phase, they remain like the two 250V batteries in parallel supplying DC. As long as they have the same polarity, they work together to supply the load. No problem.
If the two 250V batteries both repeatedly have their polarity switched over simultaneously, they remain perfectly in parallel, supplying the load. No problem.
But if one 250V battery is switched out of synchronisation with the other, they will become two 250V batteries circularly connected in series, shorting circuiting each other.
Result: 500 volts driving current through only the power sources' low internal resistance.
That is what is happening in the two outof-sync generators. So the two generated voltages are added together, 500 Volts, driving current through each other's very low internal impedance coils.
Result: MASSIVE OVERLOAD CURRENT through both generators' coils !
ALL OF THE POWER GENERATED immediatly produces MASSIVE HEAT in BOTH of the generator coils' resistance !
The copper coils IMMEDIATELY MELT or become WHITE HOT PLASMA ! (OK, I maybe guessing a bit there.)
All of the electrical cables in the circuit are subjected to the MASSIVE OVERCURRENT, so they BLOW UP like fuses !
NOW CAN YOU IMAGINE why that produces ONE MASSIVE BLAST ! ! ! ! ! !
(Pardon me shouting, but I think it produces an appropriately dramatic effect.)