Continuation of my considerations

There is one thing that puzzles me ...
Everyone agrees that the amplifier
it must be stronger than the loudspeaker.
I have been browsing this forum for a long time.
I am asking for any advice on the selection of components.
But in most cases:
Loudspeakers with higher power than the amplifiers are selected
- "should pull gently '
Nobody recommends the popular junior
Dark blue helix or el compa
and always (if it's unlimited it ends in es-6c (you know what I mean)
the same is with the imme amplifiers ...
After all, according to earlier thoughts, he would have better control over Helixes than powerbasses ...
What amplifier will this Helix be better than the Powerbass?
What am I striving for ...
Do you always have to be guided by speaker power?
Can a hi-end loudspeaker with a power three times greater than that of the amplifier (not reaching its maximum capacity) sound from a loudspeaker properly selected for the system?