Below is a photo of the box under the hood. The missing relay is from the starter, I just short it and turn it on, I had to check the immo repair, but the problem is that:
1. Relay control - one wire to ground and the other wire (gray) - well, someone had to rummage because it goes to this buła cube, but in the PIN which is empty at all, so of course it can't work. Where should this cable go? On the diagnostics on Delphi, when I try to start the starter relay, of course, it throws an error - open circuit, and everything is correct, but I can't figure out where it should go yet.
Added after 4 [hours] 35 [minutes]: A small correction, one of the relay control wires goes to the ECU on pin68, while the gray one does not know where it should go.
Added after 2 [hours] 3 [minutes]: I found PIN52 which controls 12V. Except that when combined with PIN68 it gives 8v. These 2 pins according to Vivis Workshop are for controlling the starter module.
OK, 8V is not enough, so I connect PIN 68 to ground, and 52 then controls the starter relay, but .... it's just a modification, it seems to work, but it throws the error P0617 Starter relay - circuit high, because somewhere along the way it probably there are some other modules, for example, neutral gear, speed, etc., Ignition lock, etc. Something is wrong, unfortunately without a good diagram or help, I can look for wind :/