What operating system?
The colleague did not understand. Dra 98 asked what you got set in:
Start-> Settings-> Control Panel-> Sounds and Audio Devices-> Tab 'Audio'
You should have set up there
Output: Realtek audio output.
Input: Realtek audio input.
Now the stairs begin.
If you have properly installed the chipset from the motherboard DVD and the Realtek drivers from that DVD, you should have the file RTHDCPL.exe which runs on system startup and turns on the mixer.
In turn, the alcmtr.exe file, which should also start at startup, detects the moment when you connect the minijack to the card. Then the balloon "Socket has been connected" should be displayed.
If this is not the case, use a Realtek mixer - such an emerald window. In it, set the headphones as a device. output and see if it is included in the diagram - green minijack hole.

Give screenshots from the mixer tabs best.
Maybe you have a tick in the sound output option on the front panel?
In the system registry it is possible to disable minijack detection, it seems "DJdetect = 0" somehow.
Realtek and helm to him = bane.
Let me know what and how.