wnoto wrote: half a bucket is 5 liters in 5 seconds is 60 liters per minute

.... nice tap. (for 3 seconds I don't even count)
There is nothing to fight for in my opinion. ...... don't get paranoid!
I have a practice with a 2-function boiler and I know how comfort drops when the boiler starts the burner with a delay.
If you turn on the tap, cold water flows through the boiler, which at this time cools the exchanger, only after a while the boiler turns on the burner.
This delay means that the boiler will reach the set temperature for a longer period of time and it will take longer for the hot water to reach the tap / shower.
If you turn off the tap now, because you do not need water, then by restarting it, in the event of another delay when starting the burner, it means fluctuations in the domestic hot water temperature and you will need another several seconds to stabilize the water temperature in the tap. Instead of focusing on the shower, you start to get irritated that your temperature jumps and your comfort drops.
It's not like you think a few seconds and that's it.
If I have a preheated plate exchanger on the boiler, waiting for hot water in the shower takes about 0.5 minutes for me. As soon as the water arrives, it is because I have ruled out the timing of the boiler when consuming domestic hot water, so I have a stable water temperature.
If I did not preheat the plate exchanger, waiting for hot water in the shower could take about 1 minute, which is almost twice as long.
For this reason, even without circulation, the tank changes a lot, because you always have hot water at the source and you do not have to wait for this water to be heated at the source and then transport it to the collection point.
Turning the tap off temporarily will not change the temperature of the water, except for a slight cooling of the water in the pipes, but when taking a bath it is a time and a negligible effect, because a delay in starting the burner will be more harmful than cooling the water in the pipes, if we have them in their lagging. With the flow water heater, every second in the delay in starting the burner causes a reduction in comfort and is felt on your own skin, because the temperature jumps like a sine wave.
For this reason, I added an additional DHW sensor at home and set the boiler in such a way that there was no timing effect when taking DHW.
In addition, I try to take a shower during a heating break so that the pump does not "steal" my hot water and does not transfer it to what, because then restarting the domestic hot water mode means another delay, because you have to wait for the 3D valve to switch to hot water before the burner starts, and during this time the cold tap water is not heated, so we have cool water in the shower as a result.
A few seconds of difference, but they can be annoying, but that's how it is if we decide on a flow water heater. You have to be aware of its disadvantages and try to minimize them.